Luvin at the end of 25 years

October 20th, 2009

During my 25 year relationship I had thought that intimacy had been good for large parts of that relationship. I was worried when I knew that our marriage was coming to a close that there wouldn’t be opportunities for excitement in the bed in the future.

I had heard that many post menopausal women aren’t that interest in sex…

Boy was I wrong.

I have found that women who had been in loveless relationships were eager to find that spark that had been missing and are grateful for the opportunity to keep that flame roaring.

I had never imagined that women would be so open minded in intimate situations and they aren’t looking to “get the dirty deed” over with. Now I hear those Viagra ads and hear the warnings about if a erection lasts for more that 4 hours you should call a doctor. I thinks to myself that I wouldn’t want to take the pill and reduce my intimacy time with my partner.

Excitement in bed is alive and well and I don’t see any reason why it would end any time soon.

FORTYfied living is alive and well in bed… the stairs, the living room…

A Good Place

February 25th, 2008

Wherever you are at; is a good place.  If you wake up in the morning and have 2 eyes, your own teeth, hair anywhere on your body, and legs that work you are lucky.  The fact that you woke up shows you that you have a bed to sleep in, a roof over your head, probably a car to drive around in and food and water.  That is better than 35% of the civilized world. 

Age is a state of mind, not a number.  Lets keep it that way.  You become what you fear, if you fear age, well guess what?  I feel that as long as I have something of value beyond the end of my nose I am going to be here for a long time doing something that I love.


Great Idea

January 3rd, 2008

I know exactly what you are talking about. It seems most people hit 35 and up and go downhill in many levels. I am a very happy, fit 42 that quite doesn’t fit in with most people I know my age and up.

It feels wonderful to know like minded  men and women.

Loving My 40s

January 3rd, 2008

I’ve made it to age 48 and I really don’t think I entered my 40s until I was 42. I look better and feel better than I did at 38. I am at peace. I’m a better decision maker. I listen more. But now that I”m ready, it’s time to meet the right people. People like me, who live in the moment and understand about respect and trust. Just curious as to how to meet you!

Welcome to your FORTYfication

December 28th, 2007

Welcome to your FORTYfication

Some people look at their forties as over the hill, others see it as the middle of the road. My belief is the FORTY is a new pathway. “Empowered By Four Decades Of Life” it can be a fast-track to success and of personal satisfaction.

There are many paths people have taken to get into their forties but they have added to their life experiences that is there to draw upon and share with others.  All that you see in the “rear-view-mirror” on the drive might not be pleasant… but they are experiences to draw from while planning your new route to the future. The more pleasant memories you create now the better it will be in the future looking back in that “mirror of memories”.

“Empowered By Four Decades OF LifeFORTYfied is created with the belief that being FORTY is a powerful feeling and a state of mind. The goal is to be a guide to those tipping towards their forties and those who still feel the vitality of being FORTY (young at heart, mind, body and spirit). The focus is on EMPOWERED thinking, improving and maintaining health for age conscience FORTY year olds
and beyond.

I want to hear from people about their journey to becoming FORTYfied, what they are doing to continue to FORTYfy themselves, and what they hope for the future. I also hope to hear what else can offer to help you with this journey to a FORTYfied self.